Being with someone who loves you, who is compatible and supportive adds much to your life. Someone to dream with, create a home with, snuggle with, have breakfast with, have sex with, talk to in the middle of the night, who enjoys you and wants to spend time with you - it's a win! Congratulations Kensai!

I've been with the same person for 17 years, and it's been wonderful to have all of the above. And the relationship keeps getting better with time. I hope you have the same.

@KJóN - Being with someone who's not compatible, loving and supportive, subtracts. It sounds like Kensai found a good one.